If you have ever been to a children's ballgame you will see parents who seemed more motivated than their own children to win. It's as if the parents are trying to relive their own childhood through their children.
It's important that as a loyal friend you know when you are being told something in confidence even if it's not explicitly stated. Be sensitive to what should be kept private about someone even before they ask you to not talk about it. When you know someone so well and they reveal something they might be thinking that due to the nature of your relationship that is already private and that you will not discuss with others. Revealing secrets can sever a relationship irreparably.
We all feel at one time or the other that we have the responsibility to set things right - even when we are not directly involved. It's important to understand these feelings and have an appropriate response. It's not always our responsibility to act. Be careful to not be the judge and jury.
Just some raw human stuff...staring down your prey long enough can be an effective method to gaining submission. Also, remember to choose your words wisely. Insults can lead to counter insults which can get out of control.
As our society seems to be more and more casual in our dress and appearance this reflects a societal change. "Values today, standards are crumbling." Nicely said Artie Bucco!
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