The Wisdom of the Sopranos Part 19 (Season 2 Episode 7 D-Girl)

This episode could have been called Crossroads. 

Anthony Jr. is stuck on the meaning of life.  He has discovered existentialism and is questing the meaning of life.

existentialism

 a philosophical attitude associated especially with Heidegger, Jaspers, Marcel, and Sartre, and opposed to rationalism and empiricism, that stresses the individual's unique position as a self-determining agent responsible for the authenticity of his or her choices.

Of course our lovely Livia sums it up quite nicely for Anthony Jr. "It's all a big nothing.  What makes you think you are so special?" She also shares her wisdom about life by telling him "do not expect to be happy.  In the end you die in your own arms."  Livia is such a charmer...

Wisdom:  Don't go to Livia for advice!  But seriously if you know someone in your life who tends to be a bit on the dramatic side maybe don't ask them for advice. 

Then there's Christopher who has an affair with his cousin's girlfriend who is involved in Hollywood movie projects. Christopher finally has his opportunity to see what his prospects are for writing.  It doesn't go well for Christopher.  But you can tell even when the door seems to close for him he still entertains the notion of following this dream.  But, in the end Tony backs him into the corner and forces him to make a decision - once and for all.  He chooses the only life he really has ever known   and the man he has always looked up to like a father.

Wisdom: Sometimes when push comes to shove a lasting decision is made.  It is necessary to sometimes force a quick decision.  Otherwise, the agony of delayed responses is too much to bear.

Pussy, after having passed his crossroad is now in distress over his choice.  He made this decision months ago after having been caught in a an illegal venture.  The FBI gave him a choice.  Inform or go to jail.   Despite his years of loyalty it was fear that gave way.  It was sad as he was telling Anthony Jr. the story of Tony's friendship when they were younger.   He knew as he walked out of Anthony Jr.'s room that he made a mistake and he couldn't go back.  That is why he retreats to the restroom and weeps. 

Wisdom: Don't let fear shadow your decisions.  (Pussy lesson is also, ironically, also the complete opposite of the above lesson.  After all he made a quick decision and for him it might have been the wrong decision.  But, he let FEAR take a hold of him.)

I try to not dwell on things that are not Wisdom associated with when it comes to the Sopranos.  I'm not blogging about the facts of the show or the artistry, etc.  But, I do want to express something about this episode.  Since the show centered more around Christopher and the Hollywood aspect it seemed at times that the acting was a little over the top.  There was one scene where Christopher was confronting the "D-Girl" that comes to mind.    It seems as if a general effort was made to make this episode almost have the feeling of a movie.  Of course maybe it's just me...

(I'm rushing through this now because one of my favorite episodes is coming up!  The Knight in White Satin Armor.   This is the episode where Janice earns my respect!  If you have seen it you know what I'm talking about.   I can't wait!!!)